shyammonk

Undivided attention is an absolute instruction, that solves the problem for himself, of how much and the associated resource crunching calculations when it comes to people, the vague idea of the other and the big dark looming society ghost. It is simple : full attention to the person, full give, not expecting to keep a particular image that can bring a particular respect, not playing the manipulative or reading his heart rate to see if he is impressed and scared of you, not preventive glances and styles to keep him at a distance and afraid.

Let no one out of your heart is another absolute which frees up such space. It is never the person or incident or emotion, but the tags and pointers that we keep that matters. Revenge, hate, teach her, show him i am not naive, see how clever i am, i will show you what happens when you play that way with me, how could he… I get my supplies from somewhere else and she does not have to give anything to me. Based on priority of what puts me in ease and my understanding of useful and productive and positive on a general whole, i can avoid the interactions, but at the same time not take any action to push her out.

Thanks to masters for both of the above.

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