Feb 15, 2011
Cognitive distortions that make Death Depressive
Magnification of the event of death and meaninglessness associated with it. After all so many people die, and it is only once and till then i have life here now
Fortune teller error I will die for sure – no error. But the losses and fears attached to it could be just fortune teller errors. Maybe they are nothing to be sad about or feared.
Filters I just don't know how it will be. It is better to leave it that way instead of using negative filters – similar to fortune teller error reasoning
All or nothing thinking I will die and all is useless then. Here now I am alive. Death comes just once (!) Here now I have life; death does not make it all bad.
Labeling. I am mortal (which feels bad, sad.)
Minimization I am weak. I am no good since I can’t solve the problem of death.
Disqualifying the positive I will die so what is the point. Also, i will die and that makes me not good enough. Yeah but I live and then die. The living part is to my credit (even if death is no point) Death may be good too. How do i know. I will die, but that does not make me ‘look’ small, incapable. Does not make what I have done and how I live any less good.
Personalization I feel guilty and not good enough since I can't solve around the problem of death. As if it is my fault that I will be dead with time!
For a complete list of distortions (and much more) and their more practical uses : Feeling Good by Dr.David Burns
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